Society has conditioned us to judge health by appearance, our own and others', through media, fitness culture, and even our healthcare system. But looking "fit" doesn't mean you're healthy, and carrying more weight doesn't mean you're unhealthy. We're breaking down why appearance is a terrible health metric, introducing the health triangle (physical, mental/emotional, and social health), and explaining why body composition doesn't tell the whole story. From the social media trap and genetics reality to real stories of coaches who were at their leanest but least healthy, we're covering what actually matters for your wellbeing. Plus, we're giving you actionable steps to stop judging your health by the mirror and start measuring it by what truly counts: how you feel, how you function, and how you're nourishing all dimensions of your health, not just the visible ones.

In this blog post, we’re breaking down the biggest takeaways from our latest Black Iron Radio episode on the myth of the “athletic look.” What does it really mean to look fit—or look like an athlete? If a specific image comes to mind, you’re not alone—but it’s time to challenge that narrative. Krissy, Kelsey, and Chelsea dive into where this idea came from, how media and the fitness industry have shaped it, and why true athleticism has nothing to do with aesthetics. Whether you lift, run, ski, or climb—if you do the thing, you are the thing. Keep reading for an honest conversation on identity, body image, and redefining what it means to be an athlete.

From a young age, I always noticed that I had a "belly". So much so that I hated the word "belly" with a fiery passion. To this day, the word still makes me queasy. But I always felt like I was overweight in some regard simply because I had a "belly". What exacerbated the situation was that I chose to be competitive in swimming, where I would wear a simple Speedo brief. And I felt like I stood out (or rather stood "rounder") in the way I didn't want to: I was one of the "fat" ones in a sea of tall, skinny swimmers.